No, I don't have guys on my mind 24-7...maybe just 24-6 :) Of course my first real post has to be about guys because, hey, what else seems to bother me these days. Today (sunday) is actually my 5 month anniversary with my boyfriend :) ... but of course we have to find something to fight about today--sounds like old news. What are we fighting about? Just something that we can't seem to drop. Now, tell me if this seems right to you. His really good friend is a girl, which is perfectly fine. He made it quite clear that they are just friends and nothing more. Great. Except that they don't act like "just friends" (especially when alcohol is involved). They become stuck together like glue by each others sides, touching, pushing, yelling, hugging...you name it, it seems to happen (minus of course kissing). And then when I get questioned about why I am distant and a little upset, he gets mad. What the heck! Does this not make sense to anyone else except myself?
So, today during the superbowl party, right in front of my eyes, they are stuck like glue. And don't get me wrong, I encourage him to have a ton of friends and socialize, but I question why they talk, share everything, skype, and go places more so than we do. Why not with me? So, because of the awkwardness of the "involved friendship", things get a little weird. I say goodbye to the group (with them still side by side) and I get in trouble later, thanks. Of course to him, its all my fault. I didnt try to talk to him enough, I watched the game too much, I socialized with not enough people....go ahead, keep the blames going. And then the texts stop and the ignorance begins (on his part of course). Thats fine, happy anneversary to you too (even though you forgot).
Phew, now that that is all out. What do you think bloggers? Am I making this into a bigger deal than it should be? What am I supposed to do?
we need to talk about this. this is NOT ok.
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